Towards Reconciliation

our family's adventures in the ministry of reconciliation (2 Cor. 5:18-20)

Easter Traditions

Being on the mission field means that our family has to be intentional about lots of things – including holidays. If Josh and I don’t prepare something for Easter, our kids won’t know it’s important. I read a great book by Noel Piper called Treasuring Christ in Our Traditions which was very good at helping me to think intentionally about holidays and family traditions. Here are the ways we prepare for and celebrate Easter. I’d love to hear what your family does to make the holiday a memorable one.

  • The Lenten Tree – a devotional for families to walk through the Bible – from Adam and Eve to Jesus’s resurrection – during the 40 days of Lent. We do this at our breakfast table as our Bible time during this season.
  • Resurrection Eggs – a big hit for little kids
  • Reading The Biggest Story by Kevin DeYoung
  • Introducing great hymns about the cross
  • “Resurrection Cookies” – an tactile way for the kids to experience the Easter story on Saturday before Easter Sunday
  • Easter egg hunt on Sunday morning
  • Homemade cinnamon rolls!! (which I better get started on now…!)
  • Some sort of low-key worship and Scripture sharing time on Sunday with other workers in town

Good Friday

On this Good Friday, we feel tension in wanting to stop life to focus fully on the suffering, death, and resurrection of our Savior; yet, life in our part of Chad doesn’t yet stop for the message of Jesus. Instead of a Good Friday service and time off from “work” this weekend, we find ourselves very blessed to be in the “thick” of ministry and life.

We have the opportunity to see in reality the blessings of Jesus’ work on the cross by…

… helping a malnourished baby and saying, “Thank you, Jesus that your body was broken for us and that if we “feed” of you we will never be spiritually hungry. You are the bread of life and you sustain us with joy and hope and peace and salvation.” (Luke 22:19; John 6:50-58)

…filling clay jars of water for our neighbors who have been days without water, and we say, “Thank you, Jesus for being the living water. We remember your death now, and we rejoice that your suffering and shame have given us life everlasting. In you, we will never thirst.” (John chapter 4)

…providing soap and water for little girls who visited us with filthy clothes and filthy bodies, and we look to Jesus and say, “Jesus, our works for you are as filthy rags, just like what these girls are wearing. Your death and resurrection have the power to wash our filthy hearts clean and make us new creatures.” (Hebrews 9:14; Isaiah 64:6)

…attending a full-day circumcision celebration for several young boys, and we can say, “Lord, we praise you that by believing in your death and resurrection, you circumcise our hearts; you set us apart to love You fully, inside and out.” (Romans 2:29)

In these very daily, sometimes monotonous matters of life and ministry in Chad, we are still able to worship at the foot of the cross and rejoice in His resurrection. Celebrating with you, brothers and sisters! Happy Easter!

 

 

Missionary Ice Cream

We are in the thick of hot season here, with temperatures above 110 most days. Frozen treats help us get through the afternoons, but we have to make everything ourselves. There’s no snow cone stands or ice cream shops around the corner. So, I created a quick and yummy 2 ingredient”ice cream” recipe that the boys can do almost alone. It is a winner in our house, so I thought I would share it with you!

Easy Banana Ice Cream

1/4 cup sweetened condensed milk

1 mashed banana

Mix together and place in the freezer for 2 hours. Enjoy! (Makes one serving.)

A Real-Life Hero

That moment when the missionary Mama is proud of raising her son in a hard place…

When mother and son read about the English Bible translator William Tyndale in the Christian Heroes book and her son asks if they can put his friend, Ms. A. in the heroes book.

“Because she translates the Bible into a language that the people here can understand.” Then they will know how to love and obey God.

Ms. A., the lady from Germany who lets my children walk her dog, becomes a real-life hero for my child.

And that’s just the kind of hero I want my boy to look up to.

Unchangeable, A Poem

Many different houses; always constant God.

Various new cultures; One unchanging Lord.

Numerous languages; omnipotent God.

Ever-changing friendships; never changing Lord.

This world is not my home; I hope in You, Lord.

Knowing You’re unchangeable; my joy is in You, God.

 

On the Road Again…

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Last year’s team during a brief pit stop.

We’re headed out for a trip around eastern Chad today. Visiting some Chadian brothers and sisters in several towns and villages in the east. Looking forward to good times of fellowship, encouragement, and strategizing about how to expand Christ’s kingdom throughout this land!

Please pray for us. There will be two other expats and several Chadian pastors joining me for this trip.

Confronting Culture with Truth

Unknown visitor: “Hello, can you help me?”

Me: “Hello, what exactly do you need?”

Visitor: “My son is sick and I want to take him to the witch doctor for healing. I would like you to give me a gift of money to help us travel.”

Me: “I am sorry, ma’am. I cannot give you money for that. I can give you money for a prescription at the pharmacy if you have one and I would like to pray for your son now. I know that God created your son and He has the power to heal your son. He does not need the help of a witch doctor.”

(We pray.)

Lady begins to leave: “Thank you for praying for us. Good-bye.”

Me: “We are followers of Jesus. I know many stories in the injiil (New Testament) of Jesus helping and healing sick people. If you want to come back to visit me, I would be happy to tell you some of these stories and explain more about what the injiil teaches.”

 

A Bittersweet Birthday

Remember a year ago when I asked you to pray for a little baby who was born premature to a mother who had committed adultery? She was shamed by her family, was not responsive to the baby’s cries for milk, and was considering running away or giving the baby to the orphanage. A week after he was born, baby A. gained any weight and I took him and his mother to a clinic to get some help. We didn’t know if he would live or die. My friend and I had opportunities to love this mother and baby in very practical ways as well as share the gospel with her.

Fast forward a year. (Can it really already be a full year?!) The mother is now my language partner and helps others in town with language as well. God has shown himself faithful to her, although she refuses to pursue the truths we continue to present about sin, forgiveness, God’s love through Jesus and his provision for her.

We celebrated baby A’s first birthday in a subdued sort of way; he recently spent days in the hospital and is malnourished as a result of the sickness. His birthday was a celebration of God’s faithfulness in sustaining him this past year, but also a somber time as we recognized he has a long way to go before he has a chance of surviving past early childhood.

We ate banana cake and talked about prescription doses. We read Scripture with his family and gave gifts of new clothes, but also gave eggs, bananas, avocadoes and other nourishing foods to get him well. A week or so after his birthday, he was officially diagnosed as malnourished and is receiving a supplement to help him gain quickly. In addition to the extra food we try to give during the week, he gained a good amount in one wee and will continue on this regimen for a while.

A’s family is still not ready to embrace the gospel, but my prayer for this little boy and his family is that they will one day have a wonderful testimony to share of God’s relentless love for them through Jesus. Pray with me for A and  his mother and family to lay aside their sinfulness and embrace the God of Scripture – a loving, just, holy God.

Pictures below:

Left – Calla Grace (3 months) next to baby A (almost one year).

Right – Baby A at his birthday party.

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Different Roads

I was sitting with my language partner the other day drinking coffee during a break in our lesson. Somehow we started talking about all the things that are forbidden in Islam. I think it actually started by me telling him about a nice Ethiopian coffee shop I found in N’Djamena, and mentioning that they also had shisha, which is the water pipe used throughout the Middle East and North Africa to smoke flavored tobaccos. In Egypt, you can’t walk a block on any street without seeing a bunch of guys sitting around a little bubbling, gurgling pipe that looks like something that would be illegal in all 50 states. He replied, “That’s haram (forbidden), along with cigarettes. Many people do this, but the real Islam doesn’t allow this”.

So he began to list all of the rules of food and drink in Islam. It’s forbidden to eat any animal that wasn’t butchered by a Muslim, who utters the words “Bismillah, Allahu Akhbar” (roughly, “by the name of God, God is the Greatest”) as he cuts the throat of the animal. The artery must be severed and all the blood drained. An animal found already dead must be left. An animal shot may be eaten if the words are said before pulling the trigger, because usually when an animal is shot it will die before you get to it. Only certain types of animals may be eaten. Camels, cows, goats, sheep, chickens, gazelle – yes. Donkeys, horses, dogs, cats, and above all pigs – no.

Alcohol is, of course, completely forbidden. It’s actually called something roughly translated “mother of all other trouble”. Interestingly though, Islam teaches that there will be wine in Paradise, but somehow it won’t make people drunk. Must be something more like the grape juice served in many communion services…

Anyway, as we left the little coffee stand and walked back to the language center, he asked the logical next question: “What does your religion say about the these things (smoking, drinking, eating pork)?” (Actually the first question was “Your religion, in English, what is it called? Christmas?”) I told him that the Bible doesn’t speak directly to the shisha, but that being made in the image of God we should not use or abuse products that cause irreparable harm to our bodies. I said that it’s well known that long-term heavy use of cigarettes and abuse of alcohol damage the body and that dishonors God. I think that may have been way too subjective for his liking, being accustomed to very discrete, objective rules: “Do this, don’t do that…”. But I think maybe that’s the first step towards understanding that we can’t use the law to climb up to God – this is impossible. Maybe I could relatively successfully follow the rules as they’re laid out in Islam. But if I move the target to honoring God, or obeying God, or glorifying God, and understand this as not just an outward action but an inward attitude, now I’m hopelessly lost. That’s what I try to do with this friend when we have the chance to talk.

We got back to the center, and before restarting our lesson I said, “You know, Jesus says in the Injil (New Testament) that it’s not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of his heart. Our hearts are not clean, and that’s not because of something we ate or drank.” He replied, “Oh, you mean like the cup that’s clean on the outside but dirty within?” (he’s been around Christians for a long time and studied English for years at a center in town where they read the Bible in the upper levels). I said “Yes, like that. And Jesus also tells the religious leaders of his day that they were like whitewashed tombs, clean on the outside but inside full of death and decay.”

He thought for a minute and replied, “without Jesus, is it possible to have your sins cleaned?” I smiled and said “No, that’s the way God has given us. He sent Jesus to die, to be judged for our sins so that we could be made righteous.”

He came to the inevitable conclusion. “Your road and our road are very different, going different directions. It seems sometimes they are close, but on the matter of Jesus we are very far away.”

I agreed and we started back with our lesson.

Would you pray for my friend? He knows the gospel, having heard it many times from different people. He simply rejects it as untrue. He rejects Jesus as God, as having paid for our sins, or even having died. These are the teachings of the Qur’an, which he knows well. Please pray for his salvation, and even the salvation of his family, that the Spirit would “open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.” (Acts 26:18)

Kid’s Corner

Isaac: Mom! I know what “shirt” is in Arabic!

Me: Really? How do you know?

Isaac: Well, I asked Abdoulaye “da chunu” (what is this) and he said, “khalag” (shirt).

Me: That’s right!

I am praising God Isaac is taking initiative to speak to people on his own without my prompting. He even wanted me to let him stay and play at a friend’s house by himself recently!

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