our family's adventures in the ministry of reconciliation (2 Cor. 5:18-20)

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A Real-Life Hero

That moment when the missionary Mama is proud of raising her son in a hard place…

When mother and son read about the English Bible translator William Tyndale in the Christian Heroes book and her son asks if they can put his friend, Ms. A. in the heroes book.

“Because she translates the Bible into a language that the people here can understand.” Then they will know how to love and obey God.

Ms. A., the lady from Germany who lets my children walk her dog, becomes a real-life hero for my child.

And that’s just the kind of hero I want my boy to look up to.

On the Road Again…

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Last year’s team during a brief pit stop.

We’re headed out for a trip around eastern Chad today. Visiting some Chadian brothers and sisters in several towns and villages in the east. Looking forward to good times of fellowship, encouragement, and strategizing about how to expand Christ’s kingdom throughout this land!

Please pray for us. There will be two other expats and several Chadian pastors joining me for this trip.

Confronting Culture with Truth

Unknown visitor: “Hello, can you help me?”

Me: “Hello, what exactly do you need?”

Visitor: “My son is sick and I want to take him to the witch doctor for healing. I would like you to give me a gift of money to help us travel.”

Me: “I am sorry, ma’am. I cannot give you money for that. I can give you money for a prescription at the pharmacy if you have one and I would like to pray for your son now. I know that God created your son and He has the power to heal your son. He does not need the help of a witch doctor.”

(We pray.)

Lady begins to leave: “Thank you for praying for us. Good-bye.”

Me: “We are followers of Jesus. I know many stories in the injiil (New Testament) of Jesus helping and healing sick people. If you want to come back to visit me, I would be happy to tell you some of these stories and explain more about what the injiil teaches.”

 

A Bittersweet Birthday

Remember a year ago when I asked you to pray for a little baby who was born premature to a mother who had committed adultery? She was shamed by her family, was not responsive to the baby’s cries for milk, and was considering running away or giving the baby to the orphanage. A week after he was born, baby A. gained any weight and I took him and his mother to a clinic to get some help. We didn’t know if he would live or die. My friend and I had opportunities to love this mother and baby in very practical ways as well as share the gospel with her.

Fast forward a year. (Can it really already be a full year?!) The mother is now my language partner and helps others in town with language as well. God has shown himself faithful to her, although she refuses to pursue the truths we continue to present about sin, forgiveness, God’s love through Jesus and his provision for her.

We celebrated baby A’s first birthday in a subdued sort of way; he recently spent days in the hospital and is malnourished as a result of the sickness. His birthday was a celebration of God’s faithfulness in sustaining him this past year, but also a somber time as we recognized he has a long way to go before he has a chance of surviving past early childhood.

We ate banana cake and talked about prescription doses. We read Scripture with his family and gave gifts of new clothes, but also gave eggs, bananas, avocadoes and other nourishing foods to get him well. A week or so after his birthday, he was officially diagnosed as malnourished and is receiving a supplement to help him gain quickly. In addition to the extra food we try to give during the week, he gained a good amount in one wee and will continue on this regimen for a while.

A’s family is still not ready to embrace the gospel, but my prayer for this little boy and his family is that they will one day have a wonderful testimony to share of God’s relentless love for them through Jesus. Pray with me for A and  his mother and family to lay aside their sinfulness and embrace the God of Scripture – a loving, just, holy God.

Pictures below:

Left – Calla Grace (3 months) next to baby A (almost one year).

Right – Baby A at his birthday party.

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Different Roads

I was sitting with my language partner the other day drinking coffee during a break in our lesson. Somehow we started talking about all the things that are forbidden in Islam. I think it actually started by me telling him about a nice Ethiopian coffee shop I found in N’Djamena, and mentioning that they also had shisha, which is the water pipe used throughout the Middle East and North Africa to smoke flavored tobaccos. In Egypt, you can’t walk a block on any street without seeing a bunch of guys sitting around a little bubbling, gurgling pipe that looks like something that would be illegal in all 50 states. He replied, “That’s haram (forbidden), along with cigarettes. Many people do this, but the real Islam doesn’t allow this”.

So he began to list all of the rules of food and drink in Islam. It’s forbidden to eat any animal that wasn’t butchered by a Muslim, who utters the words “Bismillah, Allahu Akhbar” (roughly, “by the name of God, God is the Greatest”) as he cuts the throat of the animal. The artery must be severed and all the blood drained. An animal found already dead must be left. An animal shot may be eaten if the words are said before pulling the trigger, because usually when an animal is shot it will die before you get to it. Only certain types of animals may be eaten. Camels, cows, goats, sheep, chickens, gazelle – yes. Donkeys, horses, dogs, cats, and above all pigs – no.

Alcohol is, of course, completely forbidden. It’s actually called something roughly translated “mother of all other trouble”. Interestingly though, Islam teaches that there will be wine in Paradise, but somehow it won’t make people drunk. Must be something more like the grape juice served in many communion services…

Anyway, as we left the little coffee stand and walked back to the language center, he asked the logical next question: “What does your religion say about the these things (smoking, drinking, eating pork)?” (Actually the first question was “Your religion, in English, what is it called? Christmas?”) I told him that the Bible doesn’t speak directly to the shisha, but that being made in the image of God we should not use or abuse products that cause irreparable harm to our bodies. I said that it’s well known that long-term heavy use of cigarettes and abuse of alcohol damage the body and that dishonors God. I think that may have been way too subjective for his liking, being accustomed to very discrete, objective rules: “Do this, don’t do that…”. But I think maybe that’s the first step towards understanding that we can’t use the law to climb up to God – this is impossible. Maybe I could relatively successfully follow the rules as they’re laid out in Islam. But if I move the target to honoring God, or obeying God, or glorifying God, and understand this as not just an outward action but an inward attitude, now I’m hopelessly lost. That’s what I try to do with this friend when we have the chance to talk.

We got back to the center, and before restarting our lesson I said, “You know, Jesus says in the Injil (New Testament) that it’s not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of his heart. Our hearts are not clean, and that’s not because of something we ate or drank.” He replied, “Oh, you mean like the cup that’s clean on the outside but dirty within?” (he’s been around Christians for a long time and studied English for years at a center in town where they read the Bible in the upper levels). I said “Yes, like that. And Jesus also tells the religious leaders of his day that they were like whitewashed tombs, clean on the outside but inside full of death and decay.”

He thought for a minute and replied, “without Jesus, is it possible to have your sins cleaned?” I smiled and said “No, that’s the way God has given us. He sent Jesus to die, to be judged for our sins so that we could be made righteous.”

He came to the inevitable conclusion. “Your road and our road are very different, going different directions. It seems sometimes they are close, but on the matter of Jesus we are very far away.”

I agreed and we started back with our lesson.

Would you pray for my friend? He knows the gospel, having heard it many times from different people. He simply rejects it as untrue. He rejects Jesus as God, as having paid for our sins, or even having died. These are the teachings of the Qur’an, which he knows well. Please pray for his salvation, and even the salvation of his family, that the Spirit would “open their eyes, so that they may turn from darkness to light and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.” (Acts 26:18)

Connecting Scripture to Chadian Life

How many times have you been in a conversation with an unbeliever and you really want to turn them to God without making it awkward? In western society, talking about God and religion is almost taboo, but in Chad, God is a part of everyday conversations. (“How is your family?” “Praise God, we are all fine.”; “How are you today?” “Walking towards God.”) How is it that I still have a difficult time turning the conversation to Scripture?

The questions I am asked from women include topics such as children, marriage, health, food, and life in America. Oftentimes, we compare and contrast our culture with each other and they ask me what I think about how they do things. (“What do you think about the husbands leaving for months or years at a time?” “Do you think it is good for a man to have four wives?”) This gives me a chance to expose them to truths about God (He cares for them and knows everything about them; God created one man and one woman in the garden, not 4 wives for Adam; God wants to change our hearts, not just our outward behavior). However, oftentimes I get little response, or at most, the women agree but don’t ask for more information. My friends are so distracted by just surviving each day, it is often hard for them to think on a deeper, spiritual level (much like us many times?!).

I need wisdom to know how to insert truths and stories from Scripture into conversations with my friends and neighbors in a way that resonates with them. (What if I shared the prophecies of Hosea and the picture of Israel as an adulterous wife and God as the faithful husband who continually pursues her? Would that help them to understand the extent of God’s forgiving, merciful heart in a way they have never been taught in Islam?) I want to understand their struggles with sin and be so filled with God’s word that I can immediately connect them with Scripture that will penetrate their heart and be the beginning of real change in their lives. Pray with me as I search and study Scripture to find passages and stories that will speak to the women I am building relationships with.

“For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of heart.” Hebrews 4:12

However, the Islamic doctrine of monotheism (tawhid) protects God’s otherness at the high cost of sacrificing the relational aspect of God’s nature. Allah does not enter into relationship with Muslims. The very word Islam means “to submit” to the will of Allah. A Muslim is called to obey Allah, not to know Him. The well-known Iranian theologian of Islam, Al-Ghazali summed it up well when he said, “Allah does not reveal Himself, He only reveals His will.

From “Invitation to World Missions: A Trinitarian Missiology for the Twenty-first Century (Invitation to Theological Studies Series)” by Dr Timothy Tennent

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How Can We Pray for E. Chad?

I have been blessed with many cultural opportunities these past few weeks – from being kicked out of a home, dealing with a difficult discipleship issue with a lady in the church, visiting a village and observing a woman crawling on her hands and knees out of respect as she past a group of men (no joke!), and observing a heated conversation between a group of Muslim women and our believing male friend about faith. These and other experiences have taught me how to better pray for God’s work here, and I think they are worth passing along to you who want to know how to pray for our ministry:

  • Prayers of repentance for assuming pridefully that people will come to faith because of us (our skills, abilities, past experience, language ability, etc.).
  • Acknowledge that God alone has the power to redeem these people – He created them in His power and it is He who made a way for their salvation.
  • Ask God what it will look like for His Kingdom to come to eastern Chad- physically, emotionally, culturally, spiritually – what things will change and be reformed when people begin to follow Jesus and the Holy Spirit is doing His work of conviction and encouragement.
  • Pray for God to convict people (especially of men) of their pride (in their good works or in their cultural heritage). When people encounter the True God of Scripture, may they be brought to their knees in recognition of how filthy their good deeds are and how unworthy they are apart from a Savior.
  • Ask God for wisdom for us (the workers) and words to speak directly into the reality of the lives of those we are living amongst. What Scriptures will pierce their hearts?
  • Pray for acceptance and favor as we walk into homes and lives of our neighbors and eventually villages. Coming in the name of Jesus sparks much skepticism here. Pray that those who welcome us into their families and communities will recognize the peace, joy, love, and other fruits of the Spirit in our lives (and not confuse those things with our material blessings that we inevitably enjoy from being white).
  • Pray for unity amongst the teams who are here -specifically our team and the other 4-adult team (from another organization) as well as on translator working with our chosen people group.
  • Pray for us as we begin to brainstorm how to best enter villages/homes with the gospel (practical ministry ideas and how to bless the people’s physical needs).

Life Without Hope

We are back home in our town and excited to continue in language learning so we can deepen relationships here as well as make new friends. I was visiting with one friend yesterday who has been severely wronged, but who has also made sinful choices and is seeing some immediate consequences of those choices. It is painful to walk alongside someone who has no frame of reference for the kind of forgiveness that God in Christ offers us or for the kind of forgiveness He expects us to have for others. How do I talk to someone about Jesus teaching to forgive 70×7 when they have yet to accept God’s forgiveness for their own sins? I have a renewed sense of sadness for my friends here who are living in hopeless situations apart from God. How do they even want to continue? I am burdened even more to pray that the truths that we share would take root in the hearts of our friends here and transform their lives, families, and communities. Will you pray with me in this new year that we would be purposeful to speak of truth, hope, and forgiveness to our friends here and that many would believe and turn from their sins?

Showing Hospitality in Chad

Christmastime is a time where we tend to practice hospitality maybe more than other times of the year, so I have been thinking about this a little more the past few days.  Josh and I recognize this as one of the gifts God has given us that we both share, and it is fun for us to have the opportunity to practice this gift together. Especially in Chad, we have many opportunities to host people in our home and show hospitality – both to Chadians and fellow workers from the West.

I was remembering with thanksgiving the ways that God has allowed us to use our home to show hospitality to others this past year. Abeche is a town many people travel through, but there are not many places for people to stop for the night if needed.

Before we ever moved into our home, a Chadian believer was occasionally sleeping in our compound on his way to and from other towns. Then, the week before we moved, we hosted a volunteer team from America who slept at our house (we were still living at the Orphanage guest housing in our town).

Since living in our home, we have hosted a Chadian family overnight for several days; fed lunch to countless men who worked to make our house a home; hosted a western NGO worker for a water drilling organization several different times overnight; hosted a man who lived here for 10 years working on Bible translation but who currently works from the States; hosted another Bible translator and church planter who lives a few hours from us; turned a spare room on our compound into a “studio apartment” for our nanny and teammate, Danielle; hosted the Blackfords who came on a vision trip and then decided to join our team; hosted two men, Ben and Matt, from our home church; and this coming week while we are still in N’Djamena, a new team in country will be staying at our house for several days while they make plans to move to Abeche in the near future.

In addition to providing a roof, a mattress, and at least a meal or two to all of these people, we were also able to use our spare room as a language learning space for another worker in our town.

I am excited that we are able to use the home God provided us to bless many other people as they go about the His work in our area. I pray this continues, and I am certain it will. We already have two or three groups from America scheduled to come out next year – all these will be for the purpose of mobilizing the church in America to missions in Chad.

Do you have the gift of hospitality? Do you find you can use it more during a certain season of the year? How do you hope to show hospitality this coming year in a way that furthers God’s kingdom? I’d love to hear how you practice hospitality in your own home!

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